Patterns that cost you
None of these mean something is wrong with you. They’re common, well-documented shapes. The point of seeing them is to catch them earlier, not to judge them.
03 · Costs youThe boom-bust cycle
Ride the high, pay for it later.
A long stretch of high energy feels like the version of you that finally has it together. Then the floor drops out, and the crash underneath runs deeper and longer than the streak you borrowed it from. It is one of the most documented rhythms in ADHD, and the borrowed energy always comes due.
Barkley 1997 · Bjork 2022·see the research
04 · Costs youThe burnout slide
Each peak a little lower than the last.
Every high comes in a touch lower, every crash a touch deeper, and recovery never quite catches you back up. When low days start to outnumber the good and the baseline keeps drifting down, that is the slow slide the research links to ADHD burnout, usually from running too long without enough recovery built in.
Bjork 2022 · Siltaloppi 2011·see the research
05 · Costs youConsistently inconsistent
A 9 today, a 2 tomorrow, no rhythm you can name.
Some days you are at a 9, the next at a 2, with no pattern you can predict. This day-to-day swing, not a low average, is one of the most reliable signatures of an ADHD brain in the research. It is draining precisely because you can never quite tell which version of you will show up tomorrow.
Castellanos 2011·see the research